Showing posts with label Wedding. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Wedding. Show all posts

Thursday, 21 November 2013

Our Wedding: The Ceremony

Some people might say that Tim and I didn't put as much thought into our ceremony as we did to the rest of the wedding (namely the food!) I don't know that I could argue against that - our ceremony came together fairly effortlessly. While I was raised Catholic, Tim and I both recognize as being agnostic. We knew that we did not want a religious ceremony. Or a long ceremony! We also knew that we wanted Tim's uncle's partner, who is a minister, to marry us. It was really nice to be able to work within the family and he was amazingly helpful in finding the right ceremony for us and rewriting certain parts to fit us better. Tim and I both wrote our own vows and they were completely different! Tim did his the week before the wedding and they were very sweet, a little funny. Mine I based off of a Youtube video that I had seen, absolutely loved, and identified with in relation to mine and Tim's relationship. The video is called 'The Last' by Wong Fu Productions and it's worth a watch:


Here are some photos of the ceremony from our day!





Lots more photos after the jump!

Thursday, 24 October 2013

Our Wedding: Group Shots

What does everyone do with the dozens of group photos you get of your wedding party? The selection here is but a fraction of the group photos we received, and they're all good! 



LOTS more photos after the jump!

Wednesday, 23 October 2013

Our Wedding: The Reveal

It was important to Tim and I that we do the reveal before the ceremony. We wanted to be able to go straight from the ceremony to hanging out with our guests. While many people choose to go the traditional route and have a pause for photographs after the ceremony, Tim and I really aren't the traditional types. I don't know if it's as special as having your husband see you for the first time walking down the aisle, but it worked really well for us. It just streamlined the timing so much to do the reveal and bridal party shots before the ceremony, which definitely decreased the stress of the day! 



More photos after the jump!

Monday, 21 October 2013

Our Wedding: Casablanca by Blue by Enzoani Wedding Dress

I will admit that I never had a "This is my dress" mental moment like they show on TV. When I saw myself in the mirror, I did think that I had never known that a dress could make me look like that. I did think that Tim would love it and that it was perfect for the vibe we were going for with our wedding. But I didn't have a crying-as-I-stared-in-the-mirror moment. Blaire did and my mother-in-law Wendy did. But I have absolutely zero regrets. I loved the dress, which is the Casablanca model by Blue by Enzoani.

I bought my dress at the first salon I went to. It was even the first dress I tried on. When I called Antoinette's Bridal Boutique to set up an appointment, I talked to Sevda, who I believe is the owner. I told her that we were having a barn wedding and that I wanted lace. That Tim had told me no poufiness and that I wanted something romantic. Almost right away she said that she thought she had the right dress. That she would have to see me first to know, but that she was pretty sure. When I walked through the doors of the salon the morning of my apointment and introduced myself, she said that she was right - she had my dress. Sure enough, she pulled the Casablanca, which was what I wound up buying. 

It wasn't originally what I thought I wanted - I was sure I wanted straps of some kind, maybe backless. But although I tried on nine dresses, none of the other ones fit as well or was as flattering. Plus I fit the size 6 in the Casablanca perfectly. Well, almost perfectly. I could have used a little butt padding. I blame my flat butt on my Dad, though. I bought the dress that day and cancelled all the other salon appointments I had set up. I will admit it was  a pain to wear. There's a photo in here of Sarah helping me up off the couch. The inner sheath of the dress is very tight, I'm guessing to keep the silhouette of the dress. But it doesn't allow for deep bending. Putting on shoes, picking things up, sitting too deeply - none of that was really possible. I could sit, but it had to be on the edge of the chair. Bonus points, though: I went to the bathroom by myself all night in this dress. Leave me your e-mail address below if you've bought yourself a similar dress and want to know how!

Sarah did an amazing job doing up my dress. I did send her a link to a Youtube how-to video, I'm hoping it helped somewhat. It definitely was not a quick process. 




Lots more photos after the jump!

Sunday, 20 October 2013

Our Wedding: Lunches at Dancing Blueberries and St. Veronus

Tim and I both wanted to make it a priority to have time for lunch with our respective wedding parties before heading over to the barn for photos and the ceremony. All of the wedding tips I read said to be sure to eat regularly and drink WATER throughout the day. Given how long the day was, I'm really glad I followed that advice! 

I wanted to go somewhere girly that we could get cute pictures at, but the options for that in Peterborough are more limited than you'd expect. My first choice was the The Magic Rolling Pin Tea Room, but I was extremely disappointed to hear that their summer hours don't include Saturdays. We went to Dancing Blueberries instead. The food was delicious and really reasonably priced, plus the service was very quick. 




More photos after the jump!

Friday, 18 October 2013

Our Wedding: The Boys' Leisurely Morning

While the girls were rushing to make it to the salon for 8:00 a.m., the guys got to relax a bit. Not as much goes into getting men ready. They picked up coffee at the Silver Bean, then went and had more coffee at Dean and Wendy's. They even called their half of our photography team, Carlie, to tell her to move her timeline back. She did warn us that men were always running later than the women would. 



Go past the jump for more photos.

Thursday, 17 October 2013

Our Wedding: Hair and Makeup at Bloodline Parlour

I'm not sure how most brides go about finding their salon. Mine just kind of fell into place. I was getting my hair cut with Becca at Catalina Salon at the beginning of February and asked Becca if she would do it. I guess I just assumed your regular hair stylist would. But she immediately responded with, "You need to go talk to Jess at Bloodline Parlour." Becca said that not only did she not have the manpower, but that doing updos wasn't her specialty. Plus she added that Jess at Bloodline was the best in town for doing very quick updos and for specializing in fine, thin hair. Which I have been cursed with. I went straight to Bloodline from that appointment and booked the day. Luckily they still had our date open.


Coincidentally (which happens often in Peterborough), I had actually met Jess before at a Halloween party at a mutual friend's house. I had really liked her then and it wasn't any different now that we were both sober. Jess has a really dry sense of humour and a very open, very honest personality. She will neither stand for nor give you any bullshit. I wound up doing two hair trials with Jess because she didn't like the way the first one had turned out. I had just had my hair cut and washed beforehand and it turned out a little flat. I also did a makeup trial with Alex there and absolutely loved chatting with her about makeup and product. It was an easy decision to have my wedding morning start there.


LOTS more photos after the jump.

Friday, 6 September 2013

Mini Honeymoon Pt. 2 - Tia and Graham's Cottage on Skeleton Lake!

One of the bittersweet moments at our wedding was saying goodbye to our friends Tia and Graham, who have moved out to New Brunswick for a new job at a private school there. We'll miss them, but it's a great opportunity for them and a great excuse for Tim and I to make plans to visit the east coast! They also graciously offered to let us use their cottage on Skeleton Lake when we have time until they get back late next spring. With Tim teaching Saturdays at Lakefield College, I don't know how often we'll be able to make that happen, but we're definitely going to try!

We were happy to head up on the Labour Day weekend before Tim started teaching. It's only a couple of hours away if we beat the cottage traffic, which we managed to do on Friday by leaving work early. I was more than a little worried when the rain started pouring down in Bracebridge - we could hardly see the cars ahead of us! That didn't bode well for us canoeing in and of course, Tim hadn't brought a tarp. We tried to find somewhere to buy one in Bracebridge, but no luck. Luckily by the time we got to the launch point on Skeleton Lake (their cottage is water access only) the rain had tapered off to almost nothing. We (and by we I mean Tim) are chronic overpackers. We were only going for three nights! Why did we need this much stuff! We had a cooler, two big bags of food, a bag of booze, a bag of mix, the laptop, two duffel bags of clothes, and the camera and tripod. Our canoe is a beast - almost three feet wide in the middle, fully fifteen feet long, weighs around 90 lbs. Even with that kind of transport, we were LOW in the water. I wasn't sure how far it was to the cottage and, I'll admit, was a bit nervous. Skeleton Lake isn't your typical Muskoka cottage lake. Rather than being a glacial lake (long and narrow), it's a meteor crater, so it is deep and wide. At one point we came over a shoal and I remarked to Tim about how much better I felt when I could see the bottom. His completely NOT reassuring response was along the lines of, "Oh, actually, we're still really deep here - it's just that the water is so clear!" Thanks, tips. That makes me feel MUCH better. Just like his comment about how the water was much rougher than he had thought it would be and that we were moving up and down in about six inch swells with only four inches of water clearance at the middle of the canoe. I told him six inches was an exaggeration (that's what she said!) so he proceeded to bounce up and down in the back to make it worse. Jerk.




The rain pouring down in Bracebridge.

We did manage to arrive safely after about a half hour of paddling, which is really short. It's also a great paddle - the shoreline is beautiful and the water really is crystal clear. So when you can see the bottom, you can see everything. We spent the evening getting situated, relaxing, having a few drinks, and having lots of cheese! 



Did we pack enough for one weekend?



Don't worry, one of those is mine - a gift from Carley and Pete for the wedding!



Sad face! Tim knocked me into a wall when we were moving a mattress. Plus I have a weird mohawk bump thing going on in my ponytail. That makes everyone sad.



Crostini for cheese!



Mmmmm - Grey Owl!! I don't care if you think it looks gross, I don't know why everyone feels they need to tell me that. The external coating is not mold, it's vegetable ash. And with my homemade cherry mustard, even Tim liked this and he is NOT a funky or a goat cheese type of person. And yes, insulting my favourite cheese is somewhat like insulting my as-yet-unconceived firstborn child.



Great selection! Clockwise from the crostini: aged gouda, cherry mustard, Bothwell smoked cheddar, Grey Owl, Hatch Chili mustard, an aged sheep's milk cheese, maple ice jelly, pear jelly. The cheese and pear jelly is from Chasing the Cheese, while the hatch chili mustard and maple ice jelly are from Firehouse Gourmet



Delicious cheese face.

While people elsewhere may have been cursing the cold, wet weather on Saturday, Tim and I were loving it. We slept in, made a leisurely breakfast. Tim continued to read Shantaram (looonnnggg book, he's been picking through it for most of the year) while I powered through the backlog of magazines I've been accumulating and not reading for the last couple of months due to wedding planning. It started to clear up in the late afternoon, so we enjoyed some dock time. Drank champagne with the gorgeous blown glass goblets Tia made us as part of our wedding gift. After making dinner we headed to the neighbouring cottage, which is owned by Graham's parents. They were having a big shindig with family and other cottagers. It always amazes me, how small the world is. Out of the dozen or so adults there, one was a geologist who had worked extensively in Nunavut, and two of them had visited or lived in Morocco. We had a great discussion about the north and relations in Africa with all the problems right now in Egypt, as well as talking about Syria. When the sun started to go down, most of us went back to Tia and Graham's dock to watch a really beautiful sunset. Tim cracked open his scotch and shared it around. After the sun had gone down and everyone had left, Tim and I couldn't stop exclaiming over how perfect a day it had been. We were just so relaxed. Hard to remember the crazy amount of stress we were under not too long ago.



Opening the first of two bottles of champagne we drank this weekend!



Mimosas in the morning!



Tim attempting to make guacamole.



Guacamole fail. Icky avocado.



Our incredible new customized Badger paddles!! We loved this wedding gift from Jess, Mike, Tobey, and Andrew!



Badger, badger, badger, badger - MUSHROOM, MUSHROOM!



Twitter at the cottage? Tim's in heaven.



Frog One of Five.



Frog Two of Five!



Couldn't believe the perfect reflection of Tim in the frog pond.



Tim posted this to Facebook with the caption, "Reflective Pond-ering." Har-har.



Watching the frogs!



What a gorgeous day!



Rum and magazines!



Oh, the bracing lake water really makes a man feel alive!



"Come hug me!" "No." "Pleeeeaaaassseeee?" "No." "You'll like it!" "No."



Falling over face!



Whale tattoo! Wedding ring! Lake!



Enjoying our champagne in the afternoon.



Tia is so great - aren't these goblets amazing?!



Enjoying the afternoon.



The start of an absolutely gorgeous sunset.


I wish we saw sunsets like this every day!


Cassiopeia.



The big dipper!

Sunday was the nicest day we had, so we got up earlier to enjoy the sunshine on the official last long weekend of summer! We canoed out to a couple of small islands that show the edge of the impact crater. The first was really strange - just covered in seagull carcasses and bones. It was actually really creepy. The second was a lot smaller and obviously was where all the live seagulls went, because the entire island was painted in long streaks of bird poop. Ew. We didn't get off there. We paddled over to the far east shore of the lake and worked our way back along the shoreline. Tim caught three progressively smaller rock bass. I wanted to hike up the one cliff face to where there was an Inukshuk perched on the top, but there were big no trespassing signs and I'm a wussy when it comes to that stuff.


Tim trying to get me to swim again. The water was beautiful. Just too cold. No thanks!



Tim rounding the point.



The water is actually twenty or thirty feet deep here, but Tim found a huge boulder to stand on.



Canoeing to the islands!



That is a nice paddle you have there!



Fishing, but no luck.



Here, Tim, you paddle. I'll be lazy and take squinty-eyed photos of myself.



Yay, Tim finally caught a fish!



Oooo, he has another one on!



And it's a monster!!



This lake is huge, it has to have bigger fish than this!



 . . . Nope. 

I spent another afternoon on the dock with a rum and coke and more of my magazines before Matt and Teri came down from the cottage they were visiting near Sudbury. The boys went fishing with no more success than Tim had had earlier while Teri and I hung out on shore and caught up (not that we hadn't just seen Matt and Teri on Thursday). After the boys got back we made a gigantic supper of BBQd steak and vegetables and corn on the cob. Matt almost immediately passed out into a meat coma, but we roused him long enough for Tim and I to lose at Pictionary. It was an easy concession because Matt and Teri are MUCH better artists than Tim and I.



Tim continuing to fish after we got back to the cottage. He got his line stuck and had to take the canoe out to get it out. Only he didn't take any paddles with him. 



Again with the rum and magazines. This is my ideal life.



After Matt and Teri got there, at least Tim had someone enthusiastic to fish with.



Teri and I would rather enjoy the late summer sun.



Awww - family cuddles. It was so exciting that the baby was moving!



We made too much.

Sunday dawned extremely crappy again. The boys got up early to go fishing, but I just went back to sleep. Matt made us a big breakfast once they got back with bacon, eggs, and steak. A man's breakfast! We all just vegged most of the day. Played puzzles, read, I blogged and worked on the computer. There was a strong northwest wind coming in and we were worried about how we'd get back to the arena. It did not look canoeable, which had been the plan. Luckily Graham's parents were okay with Tim driving them into the marina in their boat and then coming back for the rest of us. Matt volunteered to sit in the canoe as we towed it back to the marina. It was SO rough! As long as he stayed in the wake of the boat and didn't do anything ridiculous, it was perfectly safe. However, it's Matt and that just isn't the way he does things!! At one point he gave us all a heart attack when he managed to rock himself out of the wake. He almost flipped, and then when Tim stopped so we could get him back in the wake, his momentum pushed him into the back of the boat and he almost turned over again! Ah! Rollwagens! 



Opening the second bottle of champagne.



So exciting!



Ugh. Brrrr. You really can't tell from the photos here just how rough it was. I'll put up a video later.



Tim and Matt assessing the situation.



Might as well enjoy what little dock time is left!


Tim actually paying attention to his driving in the rough weather.


Our super safe plan to get the canoe back. At least Matt is wearing a life jacket!



Hi! Hi guys! How's the boat? The canoe's great!



Look at me! No hands!!

*sigh* Rollwagens.