Trifle Day 2014

Happy birthday to me! I kind of can't believe I turned 29 on Saturday. My last year before my thirties. My first year having a child, owning a house. 29 is marked as a pivotal point in stereotypes - eternally 29! - but I think it will be pivotal to me for how much change it brings into my life. I may remember 29 as the year of being broke and sleep-deprived!

I always find birthdays, along with New Year and the start of September, make me reflect on the year past and consider the goals I need to be working towards. Some goals I want to keep in mind for 29 are to stay strong on the budgeting front and really focus on sticking to cash purchases. No more credit! I want to be focused on my fitness both before and after baby - ideally I'd like to be back to my pre-pregnancy weight by Christmas. That means not letting my pregnancy weight gain get out of control, and being diligent about actually exercising. I'll admit I've never been good at that. I want to keep up with this blog (I say that every time I set goals, but I struggle to follow through with any regularity). Most importantly, I want to be better about connecting with family and friends. Making dinner parties, brunches, and get-togethers happen more often. Being better about picking up the phone or shooting off a quick e-mail or note. I know that a lot of people find it difficult to balance having a child with their pre-child relationships, and I don't want that to happen to me. My friends are an extended family that has been with me through so much. I don't want to lose any of these people through neglect.

But enough about goals and reflection - my birthday is always celebrated with an annual Trifle Day! Tim and I stopped in town Friday night to pick up trifle supplies. I make enough trifle to really comfortably feed twenty people, or that can be stretched to feed thirty. I make it in a large glass punch bowl/cake plate that I bought at Knock on Wood back in university for this exact purpose. We had twenty-one this year and there was only the tiniest bit left over - I have it in the fridge for a snack. It does feed a lot of people, but I'll warn you that it isn't cheap. I usually spend between $50 to $70 each year, plus it takes an hour or two to prep and assemble if you're doing it on your own. Without any further ado:

Laura's Birthday Trifle

Ingredients:
2 - angel food cakes
2 - 170 g clamshells of blueberries
2 - 170 g clamshells of raspberries
2 - 1 lb clamshells of strawberries
6 kiwis
2 - 1 L containers of Cool Whip, thawed
1 - 500 mL container of sour cream
1 cup of milk
2 - 4 servings pkgs of vanilla pudding mix

1. Prep your cake: Cut the angel food cakes into approximately 1" cubes.
2. Prep your fruit: Wash the berries. Cut the strawberries into chunks the same size as your blueberries and raspberries. Peel the kiwis and cut into chunks the same size as your berries.
3. Prep your cream: Mix together sour cream and milk. Thoroughly mix in both packages of vanilla pudding mix. Fold in both containers of Cool Whip.
4. Cover the bottom of your trifle dish with cream, then a layer of cake, then a layer of fruit. Repeat until you've used up all of your ingredients. I can usually get three layers in my large dish.

From this:

To this:

To this!

Have a happy trifle day!

Designing the Nursery: Can you fall in love with a rug?

I have been a little bit worried about how the nursery is going to look with white walls and possibly white furniture, so I wanted to inject colour through some of the textiles in the room. I was cruising around Houzz looking at rugs and found this incredible nursery by Dvira Interior Design Toronto that I just fell in love with:

Contemporary Kids by Toronto Interior Designers & Decorators Dvira - Interior Design Toronto

The rug - which is exactly what I wanted - is an Ikea Strib rug and sadly discontinued. But the photo gave me an idea of what to look for. After searching 'Colourful Nursery Rug' on Pinterest, I found this photo of a felt ball rug:

Photo courtesy of Dots by Dorte Damgaard

This rug is Hay's Pinnochio rug - hand felted and strung in Nepal. Similar to the bespoke Swedish GRAN wallpaper I wanted, this Danish designed rug (sticking with the Scandinavian design concept) does NOT come cheap. Canadian website The Modern Shop lists them at $549.00 for a 90 cm circle, which is definitely smaller than what we'd want on the cold basement floor of the nursery. The 2 metre circle, which is closer to the size we'd want, is listed for $2,829.00! Not happening!

I considered for a second attempting to DIY this rug - lots of people felt things. But my Google search turned up lots of stories about carpal tunnel syndrome and the frustration of making hundreds of felt balls. It seemed like most people never finished their attempted rugs, and I am neither as patient nor as crafty as a lot of people who blog about these things.

Again, I went to Etsy instead to see if I could find something a little more realistic for our price range. Etsy has quite a few of these rugs listed for much more reasonable prices. I even found one I really liked in a decent sized rectangle - 120 cm by 150 cm for about $425.00 CDN shipped. Check out NativeCraftNepal for some reasonable Etsy felt ball rug options.

I thought I had Tim convinced that this was a great option, but he was talking to his mom about it and she told him that we had to go to Winners and at least check out the rugs there before we settled on anything. I think Tim was easily swayed by this suggestion because he didn't love how colourful the rug was. He was worried about it being too loud for the nursery. My arguments about babies loving colour apparently weren't persuasive enough.

Whether babies love colour or not, Tim and Wendy turned out to be right about Winners - we found an AMAZING rug. We both loved it right off the bat, even if I did have a twinge of regret about the more colourful felt ball rug. This rug is felted wool as well, but is wool twists rather than felt balls. It's a very similar texture and feel, though. Tim loves that the colours are more neutral. He loved it so much that he actually stood guard over it with his hand on it while I went to find someone to help us get it down. When I teased him about it, he argued that it was necessary - one woman had come over to eye it while I was gone and he had to defend it! The texture of this rug is amazing underfoot. It feels like you're getting a foot massage every time you walk on it, which is why both Tim and I have been taking random walks around the living room ever since I rolled it out last weekend.

Not only was this rug significantly cheaper than the felt ball rug (unsurprising, since that was coming from Nepal and this was driving home with us from the south end of Peterborough), but it's larger as well. We're hoping the 5x7' size will be perfect in the nursery, which is roughly 9x12'. We're planning on cutting at least a foot or two off the long end of the room by adding built-in wardrobes at some point. The room we're using for the nursery doesn't have a closet, so we'll need that storage space. 

I think this rug is going to look amazing with the decals - we received the colour samples from Julie at iSigns Decal Studio and have been going back and forth with which greens look best with the variegated blue tones in the rug. What do you think? From left to right, the colour chips are Celadon, Olive, Light Green, Green, and Dark Green.

Spring Weather Hiking: Avoid the Darshy Areas!

This winter has been the coldest and longest I can remember - which makes sense, considering that it's been the coldest winter in twenty years for a lot of North America. Living in Lakefield made all the difference for me - if I don't have to drive in it, I love winter! I loved walking to work while the snow was coming down and seeing everything all white and sparkly. But even so, it has been nice to finally have the spring thaw. It's been entertaining to watch the river get higher and higher even as we've had a bit of flooding panic at our house. We had water coming through the ceiling in one of the heavy rains and the basement flooded 6" deep because the sump pump was (stupidly) not plugged in.

After all of that, it was really nice to have a long Easter weekend at home. We took a drive every day to check the flood waters and Tim got lots of yard work done. We had a couple of family dinners and I ate at least a pound of Cadbury mini eggs. On Sunday we decided that the weather was nice enough to head up to High Falls and attempt a hike. We haven't really done anything like this since Christmas on the Bruce Peninsula, when I wasn't really showing. I haven't put on a ton of weight yet with my pregnancy, but we're five and a half months now and the eight pounds I have put on feels like a ton sometimes! (Mostly when I'm bloated - how can air feel so HEAVY?)

Tim was more than a little jealous that there were a couple of families camping there. He had really wanted to go camping this weekend when we found out we weren't going to London to see my family. But it was encouraging to see three other vehicles in the parking lot - we had been worried the trail would be a mess with flooding. We passed a couple of guys coming back along the trail and Tim asked them if it was possible to reach the falls. Their response was, "Yes, you can make it almost all the way, there are just a few darshy areas."

We thanked them and moved on, but then had a hilariously puzzled conversation about the exact definition of "darshy". Damp and marshy? Dodgy and marshy? Perhaps even dangerous and marshy? It remained entertaining over a couple of saturated and muddy patches, until we reached the first stream you have to cross. This was where we had some of our High Falls engagement photos done, and it usually looks something like this:

 

I mean, as creeks go, it's not insignificant - but now you couldn't even see this tangle of logs that usually makes up the path across. The "creek" went right from the embankment on the east to probably fifty feet across and was at least four or five feet deep, maybe more. (Even Tim didn't test it.) There were definitely some logs and mushy ground across it, but nothing that we could see that connected or looked particularly stable. Not to be discouraged, we turned upstream and thought that we could probably find a crossing further up where it wouldn't be so wide. Fifteen minutes . . . No good crossing sites. Thirty minutes . . . One good crossing log, but it was fairly narrow and at least three feet above the water line (although now that I type that, why does it seem more stable if the log is closer to the water?). I would have skeptically attempted it, but Tim decided he didn't want to risk the hike and drive back home with what would have been an extremely pissy me if I had fallen in the water. We all know I would have blamed him for it somehow. I did cross a couple of smaller logs without mishap.

There was still quite a bit of snow back in the trees, but hopefully this melts slowly enough that it won't contribute to the current flooding.

Forty minutes or so of hiking upstream though and Tim alerted me to the rumbling water he was hearing. We thought for a few minutes that maybe we had managed to cut inland and significantly shorten the usually hour and a half-ish hike to the falls! No such luck, but we did find an absolutely gorgeous set of smaller falls.

Low Falls?

Sunbathing with the baby!

So much love.

Tim spent some time playing with the settings on his camera to blur the water, but I think we should have brought the tripod.

There was also a little camping site on the other side of the creek at the falls. The creek has a sandy bottom, so both Tim and I were thinking of how nice that camp site would be in the summer.

Sierra made hiking so much harder! Level trail wasn't bad, but the off-trail hiking and all the ups and downs were exhausting. So after we found the waterfall, we went a bit upstream and found a big patch of sun and sat for a while. It was unbelievably gorgeous weather. 

We made boats and sent them in a boat race down to the waterfall. Can you pick up the design flaw on Tim's flashy and furry boat? It shouldn't come as a surprise that my tried-and-true bark and twig schooner won!

Why is it that the hike out is always so much shorter than the hike in? We probably took an hour to get out to the little waterfall, but it only took us a half hour to get back. True to my statement before of how me falling in the water would have been Tim's fault, I was crossing a log on the way back and Tim stepped on it and it broke. And it was totally his fault! He said that he wasn't anywhere near where it broke, but I'm sure that if he hadn't stepped on it I would have been fine. Luckily it was just over a little ditch and not over a bunch of water. Tim being Tim, that was not the only time he almost killed me on the way back. He likes to find dead trees that have fallen into other trees and untangle them so that he can push them down. He found a big one on our hike back - maybe 8-10" wide at the base of the trunk and thirty feet tall or so. I got out of the way of where he indicated he would drop it, but then he gave a big push and I looked up and it was coming straight for me! Tim said I looked the Road Runner spinning my wheels when I ran away. I ran behind a big tree and looked back and Tim just had this shocked and terrified look on his face with both of his arms wrapped around the trunk. Like that would have stopped it from falling! Luckily it caught on another tree. But I still hid behind a big tree until Tim had pushed it all the way over. 

Oh, I forgot - on our way in Tim spotted a trio of otters playing in the main part of the river! I haven't seen otters since I was in my early teens, and it was so much fun to watch them watching us and swimming with each other. I always forget how BIG they are! 

Two of them were pretty shy and slipped away soon after we started watching them, but the third pulled himself up on a log and watched us back. He almost seemed to be posing for the camera!

Finally, here's a map to show where we should have gone versus where we did go - so much for us thinking that maybe we had found a shortcut to High Falls!

I love the area - it's not quite like the hiking back on the Bruce Pen, but it's a nice spot close to home. We need to get out camping some time before I have the baby!

Designing the Nursery: Picking a "Theme"

One of the questions that I was often asked about our wedding was, “What is your theme?” Unfortunately most people seemed stumped when I tried to explain that we didn’t really have a theme, or a particular colour scheme. I feel like people are having a similar reaction to the direction we’re going with the nursery.

I knew very early on in the pregnancy that I wanted the nursery to be wilderness themed. If we had been having a boy, it probably would have been more literal. Not camo – but actual camping gear. But since we’re having a girl, I love that I get to take that same wilderness theme and make it a bit more my style. I want it to be a good representation of both Tim and I – a space we both feel comfortable and happy in. The direction I’m going in is what I’m titling “Scandinavian Wilderness”. The original inspiration was the GRAN wallpaper from Fine Little Day:
 

Unfortunately Tim vetoed that as soon as he found out that it would cost us around $450 (eeek!) just to do a feature wall. My mother-in-law suggested we could get a very similar look by stenciling, but I know that we’ll probably have to be repainting down the road when Sierra (yes, we’ve named her already) is old enough to have tastes of her own. Painting over stenciling does not strike me as being particularly fun. I think you’d have to sand down all of the edges of the trees. I’ve used decals in a rental before, though, and absolutely loved how they applied and how they looked.

I wanted to source decals as locally as possible, so I looked up wall decal companies on Etsy located in Ontario. After sending out a few e-mails, I received a quick response back from Julie at iSignsDecalStudio in Kitchener. I sent her the photo of the GRAN wallpaper and asked if she’d be able to do something similar. She sent back this graphic of decals she had made in the past, which both Tim and I loved. The colours are so nursery-friendly! She’s sending us samples of the different colours of greens she has available so that we can customize the trees to how we want the room to look. I can’t wait to start picking out other items to go along with these!